According to Vietnamese legend, after God created the world and before he created people, he sent an angel to plant rice so that humans would have something to eat. But the angel got drunk, fell asleep, and never completed his task. When he woke up, grass had grown everywhere and God was mad.
To punish the angel, God turned him into a buffalo and sentenced him to helping mankind till the earth.
January 27, 2009
Tet Viet Nam
After six years, Nancy and I finally managed to be in Vietnam together for Tet Viet Nam (Vietnamese New Year). In the past, we'd only been around for the last few days of this four-day holiday and I was here for New Year's Eve in 2007 when Nancy was in the US for a few weeks, so I was excited to share it with her this year.
Around 11 PM we locked up the house and walked down to Ngoc Khanh lake, one of the fireworks sites the city had set up. Everyone was in a good mood, ready to welcome the year of the buffalo (for the Chinese, it's the year of the ox).
Precisely at midnight, the fireworks erupted. It was an impressive show and we got a pretty good view through the trees near the edge of the lake. We walked home, shoulder to shoulder with a few thousand other people. Along the way, the sugar cane sellers were doing a brisk business. It's good luck to have a live plant or branch on your ancestral altar at Tet and a lot of young people climb trees to break off a branch. To discourage that habit, the government has encouraged the use of sugar canes. It's one of the few times you can buy them whole in the city, from root to leaves.
For the last few days we've been packing up between visits and lunch dates with friends. On Friday night we head for the US. We've known this was coming since last Thursday, but being back in Hanoi makes it feel worse. When we drove past the school this morning and I looked out at the pond that I've seen so many times from the teacher's room, it was all I could do to keep from crying. Funny how all the problems with the city (noise, pollution, cost of living...) fade away when you have to say goodbye to it all.
Around 11 PM we locked up the house and walked down to Ngoc Khanh lake, one of the fireworks sites the city had set up. Everyone was in a good mood, ready to welcome the year of the buffalo (for the Chinese, it's the year of the ox).
For the last few days we've been packing up between visits and lunch dates with friends. On Friday night we head for the US. We've known this was coming since last Thursday, but being back in Hanoi makes it feel worse. When we drove past the school this morning and I looked out at the pond that I've seen so many times from the teacher's room, it was all I could do to keep from crying. Funny how all the problems with the city (noise, pollution, cost of living...) fade away when you have to say goodbye to it all.
January 23, 2009
Transition
After two weeks of medical tests in Bangkok, Nancy's breast cancer was confirmed and the decision was made to return to the United States for treatment. It has been a very difficult two weeks in ways that would take a long chapter or two to tell.
Plans seem to change every morning we wake up and check our email, but at this point we're aiming to go back to Hanoi, pack up a few things, and then travel to Greenville, SC . We'll spend the next several months there as Nancy goes through surgery and follow up treatment. I didn't expect to be watching the Super Bowl in the US this year.
Nor was I expecting to be away from teaching for the spring semester. What happens when two team leaders are unexpectedly sidelined and have to withdraw from a program where they're supposed to be mentoring three new teachers?
Provision happens.
A few weeks before Nancy even noticed anything was wrong, a friend of ours in Ohio, who has had years of experience as a team leader with the China Teaching Fellowship, was feeling led to return to Asia. The CTF Program Director and our VN Country Director contacted her and she agreed to come to Hanoi and take our place. This is another reminder, as bad as all this has been, that it was not unexpected by the one who wrote all of our days in His book before one of them came to be.
Plans seem to change every morning we wake up and check our email, but at this point we're aiming to go back to Hanoi, pack up a few things, and then travel to Greenville, SC . We'll spend the next several months there as Nancy goes through surgery and follow up treatment. I didn't expect to be watching the Super Bowl in the US this year.
Nor was I expecting to be away from teaching for the spring semester. What happens when two team leaders are unexpectedly sidelined and have to withdraw from a program where they're supposed to be mentoring three new teachers?
Provision happens.
A few weeks before Nancy even noticed anything was wrong, a friend of ours in Ohio, who has had years of experience as a team leader with the China Teaching Fellowship, was feeling led to return to Asia. The CTF Program Director and our VN Country Director contacted her and she agreed to come to Hanoi and take our place. This is another reminder, as bad as all this has been, that it was not unexpected by the one who wrote all of our days in His book before one of them came to be.
January 18, 2009
For the Latest
It may be a while before I update much on this blog, due to the craziness of our situation these days. If you want to get the latest news on Nancy, click here to see her CaringBridge blog.
January 14, 2009
Unfortunately
"Unfortunately" is never the first word you want to hear from your doctor's mouth when you're waiting for the results of a biopsy, but that's what we heard today. Nancy will go through staging tests on Friday and then we will decide on where to go for treatment.
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